So today I asked my best guy friend why, despite having been in a dominantly male environment for the past 7 years, nobody likes me. Honestly, I’ve been pretty confident in myself. Looks wise and personality wise. I think I speak for all 4 of us when I say that. However, we’re somehow… all single… and with the exception of @unjustnyx, we’re single to the point where there is no one making an effort for us.
One of my close friends thought it’d be fun to try online dating, so I thought . . . why not? She’s honestly the sort that was TOTALLY against online dating and she hardly ever tries anything new. For her to actually make an account and start trying out an app to find someone made me realize . . . that I should give this a shot too. At the end of the day, the two of us, including Selene, were totally . . . over this online dating. No more. Continue reading
I recently met a new guy and he was cute! Yay! I don’t have a full-on crush on him but I do get the feeling that I would like to know him better. I feel kind of shallow because I realize that a lot of my crushes start with me noticing some guy’s looks and then wanting to know the person better after. (I’m trying to change that and be more open minded, but it’s hard.) That’s not the worse though that happens, I think. Sometimes I start analyzing little body language cues that the guy gives or try to remember all the words he said to see if there were any hints of a crush on me. I admit that I do get obsessed with the puzzle of finding out whether he likes me back. My worst habit is . . .
Wow . . . I think I haven’t written a post in a few months. Sorry about that. I’ve been very busy these days with school work. Nothing incredible has happened in my life. I actually only feel worried about my future career. Job prospects aren’t exactly full of light, but we’ll deal with that one step at a time.
So I’m at a new place, new school, new friends. And I noticed that out of my class where 90% of the female students are in a relationship, I just so happened to quickly become friends with the handful of single girls in the class.
I thought it was kinda interesting, so I shared my observation with my mom:
Me: Guess what, my new friends that I’ve been hanging out with are also single! I guess it’s true that single girls attract fellow single girls.
Mom: No. It’s just that single girls are the only ones who have time to hang out with you. Girls in relationships spend time with their boyfriend.
Words of wisdom, mom.
I remember reading this book my sister recommended called “Men Like Bitches”. I’m pretty sure the title was something like that. When I started reading the recommendations the book suggested, I thought that they were sometimes pretty mean. I decided that I wouldn’t want to treat a guy like that. I hated playing games, and I was a firm believer in chasing after what you want. Continue reading
It’s the end of the semester, and well, I think I did start to like the Serious Guy. I thought, oh what the heck, let’s just confess and see how things go? I don’t want to be single forever right? Continue reading